The saga surrounding the marriage and divorce of Pastor Frank E. Ray, Senior Pastor of New Salem Missionary Baptist Church makes one have to laugh to keep from crying.
For those of you not familiar with the story. Rev. Frank E. Ray divorced his first wife to marry his then mistress, Deborah, an alleged former stripper in 2004. The wedding some say, including Rev. Frank E. Ray, was an embarrassment to the faith community to say the least, with one of the biggest highlights being that all the brides maids were decked out in leather:
According to Blogger Thaddeus Matthews:
Then earlier this week, I reported that Deborah Ray claimed that the good Rev. attempted to run her over in a Bentley that the both share, Chile Pleeze! This is some real life preacher wife drama for real!
My take on this subject is, Rev. Frank E. Ray needs to repent for his sinful behavior and the leadership of his church should have enough faith and courage in God to ask him to get somewhere and sit down until he does in fact, get his self together.
How in the world could Rev. Frank E. Ray truly believe that this marriage would last a lifetime as it was not of God in the first place. Rev. Frank E. Ray was wrong to marry this woman, period. So, I am baffled that he would file for a divorce and seek to destroy this woman as if he is a victim in all of this.
CLB family, please keep in mind that shepherds are human and we should not treat them as if they are God. We have to stop condoning the bad behavior of preachers/pastors who are acting in an ungodly manner and hold them accountable for their actions.